Advent is here!

With temperatures here hanging on the verge between double and single digits below zero, we are surprised at how mild we are finding it to be but, I guess since it was down to 27 below a week and a half ago, it makes sense that this feels much warmer. And I think the snow is here to stay now with, a little bit of snow falling over the last couple days, about 5 inches altogether now! It’s been an interesting experience seeing the windows freeze from the inside, something we have never experienced before. Opening windows in double digit cold weather for any length of time results in not being able to shut them all the way when you want to, as Denise found out the hard way, and much to her dismay.

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As advent has now begun we are in preparation and expectation of Christmas, and all of the goodness that comes with it; changing things around in the church, hanging Christmas lights, and preparing our hearts for the greatest gift of all: the Christ-child!

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Advent wreath at the altar, in the church

Last weekend, that’s 2 weekends ago, Fr.Kieran had come down for Mass and we celebrated the Feast of Christ the King. After Mass a few people from the community joined us for a procession down the street, with candles as well as hymns being sung, stopping at two different houses and asking, “Is Christ the King of this house/family?” to be answered by, “Yes, we declare that Christ is King in this household!” Then we returned to the house to join the others, older folk, for a finger food potluck!

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(L to R: Diane, Kateri, Maria, Effie, Celena, Rita, Isaiah, Josh, Fr.Kieran)

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This past weekend was spent organizing an Advent retreat, themed on the mysteries preceding the first Christmas and Mary as our model and example during this time of preparation. The Annunciation, the Visitation, and the birth of Christ were the focus topics; looking at Mary’s response through faith, her proclamation of praise and thanksgiving, and her complete participation in bringing Christ into the world, respectively. The 3 other people in attendance made for an intimate retreat, closing with a holy hour of adoration. Denise led an Advent afternoon with 2 other children in attendance, besides our own. They had the opportunity to talk about what an advent wreath is, how they could prepare for Christmas, watched a video on St.Nicholas, and even joined us for a few minutes in adoration. One of the attendees mentioned that she had been told to baptize her son but hadn’t because she didn’t want to just because people said she should. But the Lord spoke to her heart and she said at the end of the retreat that she wanted her son baptized. God is good!

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Set up for Advent retreat & adoration

Amidst the daily tasks, we are enjoying the gift we have in each other and the joys that come with children. Aliz is starting to ‘army crawl’ all over the place, dragging her body from one thing to the next, getting in to the other kids things now. Isaiah is becoming such a little boy, starting to form his sentences and be understood better, by us. Gianna & Kateri are enjoying the traditions of Advent, especially the “Advent Adventure” that we do through Holy Heroes. Kateri is learning how to sing Jingle Bells in Talthan for her Christmas concert and is pretty good at it. Of course we have no idea what the words are and she often asks us to cue her. We keep having to explain to the kids that they know the language way more than we do. The kids also really enjoy Tuesday nights, as we pray the rosary with the community here, with usually anywhere from 2 to 5 people in attendance. As we get to know everyone better we are also finding we are more comfortable with our kids, well, being kids, and the faithful are the first to remind us to “chill out!” The women who come to rosary are some of the prayer warriors for their families and the community at large. Once again we were humbled Tuesday night by the prayers of these women, drawing us deeper into prayer.

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I(Josh) have been enjoying getting out to play badminton on Monday and Thursday evenings at the school. One of the teachers has organized a drop-in, with usually only the two of us, but sometimes a third person joins us. We have also organized a games night, at our house, every Saturday evening. We have had a pretty good turn out and I was a little surprised with actually how many people came out, 7 the first time, and 9 people the next. So we are enjoying lots of board gaming, even more frequent than I got back home:)

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Kateri was very proud of her drawing, of the northern lights, with tub crayons. We thought it was pretty great also!

 

Last week we figured it would probably be good to whip up a couple batches of homemade bar soap for Christmas presents, being that they take a little bit of time to harden up. Having to wait for the kids to all get in bed and then organizing everything, we soon realized that it probably wasn’t the best idea to tackle two batches. Clean up is a pain though, and if you need to make two batches it is just easier to do all the clean up in one night rather than doing it twice, over two nights. It resulted in Denise skipping off to bed (as she had to cook in the morning) just as we started the second batch and me staying up to finish and clean-up, getting to bed by , I think, around 1 in the morning. But the soap was made anyways:) It turned out pretty good too. I enjoy getting to invent and experiment at making my own creations.

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Lavendar Soap

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Grapefruit Soap, with tea leaves

Denise has been asked if she could stay on into the new year as temporary cook at the school, as the real cook is still not fit to return. It has been working out fine for us and she still enjoys it so she will continue. Every year there is a community Christmas dinner at the school, for which the cook, for the past few years, has done the whole dinner! Thankfully, this year the rest of the community is playing a part so Denise only has to cook two turkeys!

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“…and there is still room for more games:)”

With it being cold outside, and not as easy to just go out and play, we also had time to organize the basement. A bunch of our stuff from moving had still been lying around(the good and bad thing about a basement) so we brought more stuff over to the church basement for storage and made some room for Denise’s craft shelf and table, and room for some board game shelving. We are feeling a little more organized now, and have lots of space for the kids to rollerblade and roller skate around on the basement floor.

Amongst this, Josh was able to get the Christmas lights hung up on the house and the church. Having hung the two strands on the house and then finding out that half of the first strand was not working, on a brand new set, was very frustrating. But taking down the strand while hanging the other strand at the same time worked like a charm. Fortunately we found that it was only one loose bulb that was the culprit. Yay, for not having to run 8 hours for an exchange on a new strand. Phew. So today I finished hanging that strand of lights on the church.

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We just experienced today, for the first time, being able to fax our car insurance papers in to the insurance office for a renewal. Then they just mail it to you. That was awesome, mainly because it saved a 4 our round trip!

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Well, this weekend should prove to be exciting with the feast of St.Nicholas on Saturday, as well as the Christmas craft fair in Dease Lake, from 10 – 3. We are hoping to leave by around 9 am, but we’ll see how that goes with the kids. It’s a 2 hour drive to Dease Lake, the first town out from here(on the main highway), so we’ll probably be driving for longer than we will be in Dease for. Oh, life in Telegraph Creek:) Then back home for games night!

If you would like information on the Feast of St.Nicholas, for kids, there is a great short video here, and there is a free colouring page here.

Comings & Goings

Pillars of greenish hue stretched from the outline of the peaks ahead to the night sky above, hazy and stretching across the horizon; the snow, passing by on either side, glittering and sparkling like a million tiny paparazzi flashes under the beam of the headlights. This was the scene, driving at 6 am in the morning from Whitehorse back to Telegraph Creek, on the Alaska Highway.

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Kids playing on the front patio in our little dusting of snow(Nov 9)

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So much excitement over a little bit of snow:)

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MY NEMESIS: The leaky pipe under, and next to, the kitchen sink. Not looking forward to repairing that:(

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We stayed overnight with Trudy, a member of Madonna House, in Teslin on our way up to Whitehorse. Can you tell the kids were excited?

Our time in Whitehorse was quick, as usual, and filled with lots to get done. We had a great time with our friends, the Lefebvre’s, whom we stayed with again! We were able to get a huge grocery shop in, a hardware shop, and even some Christmas shopping, among other things. We were able to go to Mass on Saturday night, something that is quite a privilege for us if it’s more than once a month.

The following pictures are of the kids at drop-in gymnastics!

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Hooray for trampolines:)

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We all went out for supper to Boston Pizza, in early celebration of Denise’s birthday, a luxury we do not have living in the village of Telegraph Creek.

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Aliz all snuggled in, taking refuge from the -12 degree weather.

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There’s nothing like a good swing on a cold day!

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I’m digging in the… snow?

We attended our Holy Family Apostolate meeting, a group that was started by Bishop Gary Gordon with a vision for families to proclaim the Gospel in the communities they live. Families are called forth to go out to the missionary territories of the world, to the North, to the South or right where they are now. This has been a great source of spiritual support and formation in listening to the voice of God, in our lives, for direction. We  were a part of the group that met in the Fraser Valley for the last 5 years, and now have the opportunity to join with the group in Whitehorse. There are roughly 8 families, along with 4 Madonna House members, who meet on a monthly basis to reflect on a line from the Little Mandate. For more information on what this group is about you can go here, and if you would like to see what we reflected on, at this meeting, you can go here.

It was pretty crazy for us, coming from the small village of Telegraph Creek(with one ‘corner store’) into Whitehorse. Just shifting  from our regular pace of life, even though Whitehorse is still a relatively small city. But I guess that is it, it’s all relative. We have started to realize how we really enjoy the simplicity of being away from the hustle and bustle and ‘busyness’ of city life.

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A herd of caribou on the side of the highway(they had actually been blocking the highway) just before the junction of the Alaska highway and the Cassiar highway.

Coming back to Telegraph Creek we arrived an hour and a half before we had to lead the communion service, only to find the power was out. Starting a fire in the church, while fumbling around in the fading light of day, and then starting a fire in the furnace in the house; fortunately the power came on shortly thereafter. However we still ended up celebrating our service with a colder than usual inside temperature.

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We continue to feel so honoured, yet unworthy, to be able to serve the community here in this way. Equipped mainly with our desire to serve and to live fully in our family life, we pray that God will continue to use our littleness for His great plan:)

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Denise’s birthday ice cream cake-in-a-bowl!

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Happy Birthday Mommy! If you wondering, Isaiah bumped his head on the rocking chair.

Remembrance Day – Let there be Peace

We attended the Remembrance Day Assembly at the Tahltan School on Friday. Below is a video of Kateri’s class doing their “Poppy Poem”.

http://youtu.be/dTw0751PPg0

At the end of the assembly I closed with a prayer:

Let us take a moment to bow our heads and pray to our Lord for peace…

God, our Creator, help us to be peacemakers who have the power to be gentle; the strength to be forgiving; the patience to be understanding; and the endurance to accept the consequences of holding to what we believe to be right. We thank you for those people who have showed us this, by their example. May we put our trust in the power of good to overcome evil and the power of love to overcome hatred. We pray for the vision to see and the faith to believe in a world emancipated from violence, a world where fear would no longer lead men to commit injustice, nor selfishness make them bring suffering to others. Help us to devote our whole life and thought and energy to the task of making peace.

In your name we pray. Amen.

Fighting back the frigid!

I guess we could almost call this week ‘Renovation Week’, with all of the renovation type things we managed to get done. Starting with the bathroom fan we decided to install one that had over twice the output, and boy did that make a difference. The one night the temperature had dropped down and the condensation we think had either frozen in the exhaust line or just accumulated so much that we had water dripping down from the fan on the floor the whole next day. So with installing the new fan as well as insulating the exhaust line I think we have it covered:) We installed new roofing on the overhang that had never been done when the carport was added on, I guess the contractor shortchanged himself or something, and kinda caulked the broken plumbing stack so that it would hold until we can get a proper coupler next time we are in town. The snow had broken it off last winter, with the roofing being switched over from asphalt shingles to metal. We also installed a motion sensor light at our front entry and fixed 3 of the broken kneelers in the church. Needless to say, we still have to fix a broken window on the church, but it seemed to me that there may be an extra one in the basement, and who knows what else we’ll find. It works out quite good being handy so that we can do all these things with limited expense. It felt really good to be doing physical work again, especially roofing, but it was just a small taste, to keep the passion alive:) But we’re probably boring you with all of this renovation talk:)

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Josh, installing roofing on carport overhang!

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Kateri’s pretty good with the camera!

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For those of you who are roofers! Check out my home made snow guard. We’ll see how it holds up. (The things you do when the closest hardware store is 8 hours away!)

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Half way there!

We had 4 people join us for praying the rosary on Wednesday. The children seem to be getting a little more used to the fact that it is quiet time and they did very well.

We also had the monthly school awards at Kateri’s school. She definitely was’t going to get the perfect attendance award, being that we were gone to Whitehorse for the last 2 days of September and the first couple in October, and she didn’t get any other awards, but she was fairly positive and we told her to keep trying hard. It was really neat hearing from one of her classmates Grandma’s, who attends church regularly, that her grandson is hearing all about God, from Kateri. That made us proud!!

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Kateri & Aliz at the awards assembly

Our new computer has arrived and we must say, this whole process of blogging is now 95% easier. What a difference:)

Aliz had her first go at real food, starting with sweet potatoes. We have a video that we will get up for y’all to see, hopefully soon!

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On Friday we had the opportunity to have a wiener roast out behind our house with our neighbours. It was planned short notice, but we ended up have a great time just catching up and trying to stay warm with the temperature plummeting as the sun started to go down. By the end of it we had the wife and 2 kids of the other constable, who was out of town on training, join us, as they had just arrived from back east after being on vacation, and the fill-in constable join us as well. We are enjoying our time outside before the snow flies and the temperature gets that much colder!

On Saturday one of the ladies that we know from church, Diane(and her daughter, Maria) Pakula, invited us over to her place, up above Glenora(about a 30 minute drive), for supper. She had also invited another young Christian family that also live up in Glenora, the Anderson’s. They have 2 kids, Anna(age 7) and Isaiah(age 3). We had such a wonderful time, staying for about 5.5 hours. The kids had a blast with eachother, and we had a great time visiting.

On the swings at Diane's place!

On the swings at Diane’s place!

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Today, at 2 pm, Denise took communion to one of the ladies who is homebound. Being that Denise had never done this before, it was really beautiful. The lady was so thankful and really enjoyed the company. It will be good to get to know her more and made us realize we should do a little more work at finding out who else in the community is in need of visits. And then Fr.Kieran joined us for Mass at 5 pm. The kids were so excited to see him and came charging out the door of the house to greet him. Kateri and Gianna both said their favourite part of the day was seeing Father Kieran. One realizes how special the presence of a priest is when you only get to see one once a month! There were 16 people in attendance, the most to date, and they all came over for a potluck supper afterwards. Mass ended up being such a crazy house with the kids. We are still trying to figure out how to manage it, but we’re hoping it will work out in time, with patience:!

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Giving Thanks

“Brothers and sisters: Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” -Phillipians 4:6-7
It is natural for us to think about giving thanks during this time of year, and as we were reflecting on this past week this scripture reading that we read recently(at Mass), at the beginning of the month, came to mind.

Late in the morning, on Thanksgiving day, we were greeted by our friendly oil delivery guy, Curly. He had come to fill our oil tank for our small heater in the basement. To date it has heated the house quite well, and even though the outside temperature has remained mainly between 0 and 10 degrees Celsius, dipping down to -3 degrees occasionally, we have not had to heat up the wood furnace yet. The mountains around here are starting to show the snow line coming down but we’re hoping we still have a little time yet before the snow flies here.

We had Thanksgiving dinner at our neighbor’s place, Constable Kyle and his wife, Kristen, and their kids, Carter(3 years old) and Brooke(1.5 years old), along with the other constable, Evan. It was really great that, even though we do not have family here, we were able to celebrate with friends.

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Pictures in front of the old Catholic church(in old town – Telegraph Creek)

Starting Tuesday, Denise continued her work in the school kitchen, for the morning, cleaning and organizing. Commiting to work two hours every morning, during the school week, has worked out quite well with our routine at home. It has been a neat way to connect to the community and Denise has had some faith chats with people in the cafeteria several times now. In the afternoon we took a drive down to the old part of town to take our family Christmas card pictures. Taking some in front of the old Catholic church and others down by the river, on the sand. It was a beautiful afternoon, and despite losing the charge on our camera battery rather quickly we managed to get at least three good family pictures out of forty☺ Arriving back home we celebrated Isaiah’s baptism anniversary with the chocolatiest chocolate mud cake(and ice cream) ever(cake homemade by Denise and ice cream homemade by Josh)!

 

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Pictures down at the beach, on the banks of the Stikine River(in old town – Telegraph Creek)

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We had our first rosary prayer meeting last week and hadn’t booked another one, but somehow one of the community members thought it was now a weekly thing and came over on Wednesday night, much to our surprise. But it was a lovely and blessed time; one of those moments where you really feel the Spirit guiding and directing your ways. This lady who did come is now one of our closer friends and is one of the kids’ adopted grandmothers. So we will now be praying the rosary every Wednesday evening.

On Thursday Denise took the secretary’s place in the office, as she was away for a couple of days, and took a break from the kitchen. We were remembering back to when we first arrived in the community, wondering what we were going to do, and now it seems like there are so many opportunities. The school also needs substitute teachers and the post office a back-up replacement. We will definitely need to discern what we take on as we want really be present to our family and to the needs of the church community.

Josh has been occupied with the kids, when Denise hasn’t been around (and been doing an amazing job! I (Denise) think Josh makes better bread, hands down!), and planning for our All Saints/All Souls Vigil which we will be holding on the evening of November 1st.

On Friday we joined in the celebrations for the Tahltan Declaration/Treaty Day. The Tahltan Declaration is when in 1910 the Tahltan people refused to sign Treaty 8 which would have meant partial loss of control of their lands and made a 5 point declaration of their land rights to the government. Josh, Gianna, Isaiah, and Aliz went over to the Rec. Centre for lunch. We also had the opportunity to look at some historical pictures of the different families along with the Tahltan Declaration/Treaty. It was interesting trying to juggle the kids around and get them lunch, but one of the ladies (actually one of Gianna’s teachers) offered to hold Aliz and so was able to manage. There were no other children there, which was surprising but more than likely due to the fact that it was a school day. We realized how different it is when you’re not really totally a part of the community. People are friendly enough, but there’s a whole new level to get to. We had a lunch of fried and baked bannock, vegetables, boiled/baked salmon with boiled potatoes, vegetable noodle soup and beef(it may have been moose) barley soup, and lots of goodies. Needless to say the kids were a lot more interested in the goodies.

Denise worked at the school Friday making her first lunch for the kids. The produce truck broke down on the way to Telegraph Creek on Thursday so the school and store were not able to get fresh produce and other groceries. So it was an improvised lunch of canned salmon sandwiches and Campbell’s soup. Let’s just say the majority of the kids were not too thrilled about the lunch and most don’t like salmon of any sort. They were all still polite but one student asked, “Umm.. do you know how to make pizza or burritos?” It was actually quite comical. Meanwhile, Kateri sat at her table and ate every bite. She brought her dishes up to me and said thanks Mom for lunch the soup was great!” Awh, thanks Kateri! My highlight of working at the school has been knowing I am close to Kateri and getting to be more involved in her day and school life. Halloween is huge here so it is nice to be able to see what Kateri is learning and bring in some teachable moments about what we believe as Catholics. Kateri’s teacher came up to me and let me know that Kateri is fitting in really well! Yes, Kateri says everyone is her friend! It’s so nice to be only 5 mins away so I can come home to feed Aliz and not miss out on too much around the house with Josh and Gianna and Isaiah.

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Our Sunday celebration with the community was amazing today, and one of the ladies even stayed for a while to play cards. We really look forward to seeing our church family each week. We are especially excited for Mass here next weekend, with Fr.Kieran!

In Summary, our time here is a continual conversation in growing and giving of ourselves and we are reminded of our own inadequacies quite often by the circumstances or situations we find ourselves in. However, in touching on the scripture quote that we began this post with, we feel that we have been so blessed with our time here in Telegraph Creek. We continue to find peace, in giving our lives to God so that he may use us as He wills and create a masterpiece out of our littleness. It is truly a treasure!
 

Whitehorse & the latest scoop!

We took our first trip outside Telegraph Creek, to Whitehorse, last week. Having celebrated confession and Mass on Sunday in the late afternoon, with Fr.Kieran and the community here, followed by a parish community supper we decided to head on our way north early in the morning so that we could make the trip in one day. It was fairly smooth sailing after departing at 5:45 am and only one sick stomach from the road out to Dease Lake. It was a beautiful day for traveling and we stopped in Teslin (just under 2 hours from Whitehorse) for a big stretch break and a late lunch at about 1 pm.

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The Alaska Highway                                                                                                (R)Coming in to Jade City(on the Stewart Cassiar Hwy)

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Views along the Stewart Cassiar Highway

We arrived in Whitehorse, just in time for supper (4:45 pm), to a warm welcome from our good friends Michel and Andrea Lefebvre and family. We stayed with them for the week, automatically doubling the occupancy of the house.☺

Our main reason for being in Whitehorse was for the Pastoral Study Days for the diocese; being nourished through a retreat with Fr.Edward Evanko, from Our Lady of Grace on Saltspring Island, and with some more pastoral and hands-on applications from Theresa Vogel, who had been pastoral administrator in Telegraph Creek before us. It was also a great opportunity to meet the other pastoral staff members and priests (and a seminarian) from around the diocese. With the children we were able to alternate our attendance so that one of us was able to attend the morning session and the other the afternoon, while we overlapped at mid-day with both of us, along with our kids, being able to attend Mass and lunch. This was a real treat, being able to attend Mass daily, as on a regular basis we are only able to celebrate Mass once a month in Telegraph Creek. During our last session, we were dealing with practicalities of missionary life. A comment was made that priests and religious have had years of pastoral preparation but us lay ministers we have had very little formal training. This person continued to say. “Frankly, I am so surprised Josh & Denise said yes to their role in Telegraph Creek!” Why did we say yes anyway? Because God put an invitation on our hearts we could not ignore. And despite the love pangs of being away from family, which is hard, we have a resounding sense of peace being in the North. Our time in Whitehorse at the pastoral study days gave us some practical tools for ministry but most of all we realized this whole new role for us can’t help but bring us to our knees in humility. Asking like little children to their Father, “What are we to do next?” Again, the words of Bishop Gary ring in our ears, “God does not always call the equipped, but equips the called.”

While in Whitehorse (on September 30th!) it snowed about 4-5 inches (and it had snowed about 3 inches in Telegraph Creek while we were away), but it had melted by the time we left. The kids had fun playing in the first snow fall of the year. We were able to get a lot of errands done that we needed to; a haircut for Denise, groceries, office supplies, banking, and even bought a new computer (which we are awaiting in the mail) as ours is getting so old that we can’t upgrade it anymore and I have a hard time even posting pictures to this blog (some days it works and others it doesn’t).

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The kids playing in the back yard at the Lefebvre’s

We were also able to go to the Canada Games Centre(Whitehorse’s Rec Centre) and went swimming with the Lefebvre’s. Kateri, Gianna, and Isaiah were all able to go down the big slide with us and really enjoyed that! Isaiah had a blast pulling Aliz around in a floating fish(so sad that we forgot to bring the camera for a picture of that).

On the Friday we were able to join in the northern Holy Family Apostolate(HFA) meeting; praying the rosary, having silent time in front of the Blessed Sacrament, and reflecting on “Love… love… love, never counting the cost.” Afterwards we shared a potluck meal and met some of the families and people that are a part of the group. If we remember correctly, there was about 15 children present. Most families present were all in the same situation, living away from their family, so everyone especially the kids love being together. After being a part of the HFA in Vancouver/Langley for the last 6 years it was a real blessing to be able to see the workings of an offshoot from the same group in it’s northern form.

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Movie night at the Lefebvre’s

It has some sadness ending our time there; to say good-bye and be heading back to the mission field. It filled us both with a bit of nervousness; that unknown and the gravity of our role in the community as the sole spiritual presence. Being around friends and fellow missionaries we found that we started to really enjoy the environment and the company. Packing a lunch for the road we were able to make it to Dease Lake by mid-afternoon before stopping for a bigger break at the school, only to end up locking our keys in the vehicle. Going to the closest house, to ask for a clothes hanger to ‘break in’ to our truck, we were very surprised to see one of the church members and her husband visiting these other very nice people. What are the odds? Fortunately one of the doors was only partly closed and with the extra help we were able to get the doors open within a minute or two. It definitely just affirmed for us the generosity and small-town feel within the community that we are now a part of. We were welcomed back to Telegraph Creek with blinding sunlight, just like when we came in for the first time. God is so good!

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Where the Tahltan River meets the Stikine River(the funest stretch of road)

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Although the whole trip took about 11 hours it didn’t really drag on at all. It felt like it went by rather quick, probably because there just isn’t too much in between.

So, back to life as usual, or not so usual, and here is a compilation of some of the most memorable events of this week. Being gone last week left us with quite a few things to catch up on, and so this post was kind of left in the dust☺

-We prayed the rosary as a community for the feast of Our Lady of the Rosary!
-Denise started working 2 hours a day at the school kitchen, cleaning and preparing lunches for the students as the school is in desperate need of a cook until Christmas.
-Kateri’s school went for a field trip to pick wild cranberries, so we all joined in the fun. It was actually a lot of bushwacking to get even just one coffee cup full of berries. The older students were making cranberry jelly on Friday so hopefully we’ll get to try☺ Again, we forgot to bring the camera on this one too☹
-Josh baked his first loaf of cinnamon raisin bread, and it was a huge hit!
-Josh was a chimney sweep for the first time in his life! Cleaning both the chimney in the house and the furnace and chimney in the church.

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-We were delivered a fresh caught salmon to our door last Friday night by one of the families in our church community, so we had it for supper Saturday with French fries. Yummy!
– Sunday, we had our biggest congregation for a Communion Service yet, 15 wonderful people. Even two other children were there. Kateri, Gianna & Isaiah were so thrilled they couldn’t help but stare at them and whisper hello to each other from under the pews. Kateri was very excited to invite them over for cookies and to play! After the service most came over for tea and people just stayed! It was so wonderful to feel us all just really enjoying each other’s company. One of the parishioners who read today shared how moved she was to read Paul’s letter to the Phillipians. She was almost in tears. Josh affirmed that he noticed and was also touched by the way she read the passage. Another parishioner shared how the readings touched her as well. When everyone left, we couldn’t help but feel so thankful and a little giddy with how the spirit was moving! “I can do all things through him who brings me strength.” Phil. 4:13

P1180229(above)Stikine River Provincial Park Rec Site to the northeast, (below) to the west

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P1180239Just above the Tahltan River

Out for a stroll

 We went out for a family stroll yesterday evening, after supper, and  we thought we would share some pictures with you! These pictures are of the view from the ridge just above our place, about a 15 minute walk!

The Stikine River with the old town of Telegraph Creek along the bank

View to the East, with the old town of Telegraph Creek down by the river on the left.

Happy hikers!

A view of the Stikine River to the West

The view to the West towards Alaska & the coastal mountains

The fun bookshelf I made for the office today!

 

My bookshelf model HAD to be in this shot, by her personal request:)

A successful outing!

With the kids being off school on Fridays (they attend the Head Start program M-Th) we took them on a short trip up the road, yesterday. So, we don’t actually live at the end of the road! An 18 km trek down the gravel road led us to the old and fairly non-existent historic settlement of Glenora. What I mean by fairly non-existent is that we couldn’t find it, but assumed a little kind of fishing camp had taken over where it used to be. I’m sure it was a bustling settlement back in the gold rush.

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The road to Glenora follows the Stikine River and there are some very scenic views along the way. About 3.5 kms out of town is where the power line stops, so everyone past there is, “off grid”, running on solar panels, etc. There is even a lovely bed & breakfast place out there, so if anyone is interested in coming up here to get away from it all; hint, hint, wink, wink. There are also 2 separate fishing camps, used by the Tahltan people mainly during the month of July. They have a big music festival and ‘culture camps’, where they teach the children about fishing, canning fish, crafting, etc.

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We got to the end of the road looking for Glenora but, as I said, didn’t really find much of anything. The main road led straight out onto the sandy beach along the river. As we were driving in a man approached us, completely soaked and muddy from elbows down. Mark and his wife, Janette, were up on holidays from Vancouver Island and had driven down the sandy shore of the river about half a km. but when they tried to turn around had hit a soft spot and got stuck. They had been digging for 2 days, trying to get their truck out. Needless to say they were very excited that we had a truck with 4 wheel drive and were willing to pull them out. It took a whole 30 seconds and in the end we found a great spot for a picnic lunch along the river, making sure we were parked on the hard packed part of the beach.

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By the time the kids played in the sand and the water and we loaded up and got back home there was only one child left awake! A very successful outing!

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a Gift, not a Burden!

Settling in, I feel now that I have more time to ponder life. I always felt that I got so caught up in my work and found it really hard to be present to my family, but that’s not what life is about. And I guess that is what I was most looking forward to about this change. I had a beautiful conversation with someone the other day about raising a family and the quality time that our children are in need of. It seems that society draws us into this notion of having to always be pushing so hard. But what if we could simply provide for our families basic needs, without having to worry about a payment on that car or the mortgage that’s keeping us tied down. I guess that’s the mentality in the big city, it just is what it is. But I have noticed a difference with what I see from the people who live out here; A different way of looking at things. Being out this far it’s just the lifestyle. I guess you could say a bit of freedom in a way, but we are each called to some way of life.

Family life definitely has been having it’s challenges too though. One soon realizes, when you have the only children at Mass, how out of control and distracting they can be. So here I am trying to lead the Sunday liturgy, reading a reflection, while Denise is trying to feed Aliz, Isaiah is pulling the tulips out of the vase in front of the lectern and waving them around, Gianna is running down the aisle and Kateri is having her own reflection muttering away to herself. I’m sure you can picture it. I just hope we don’t scare any of the locals off. It was reassuring to hear one of the local ladies say, “Just let them be.”
To be real though, it was a hard day. We were only able to have a prayer service, as our first Mass out here won’t be till Sept 28th.
We couldn’t help but feel our blood boil and wonder how to discipline our children so they can behave better in church. We know this is not the right spirit but it was how we were feeling yesterday. Denise’s sister, a Catholic school teacher, had some excellent advice about preparing the children so it is easy for them to feel they succeed. Walk through with the kids the expectations and have them model what walking quietly and sitting quietly looks like. Praise them in abundance when they follow through with sitting quietly and for having good listening ears. Good advice. We will try these!
I (Denise) was left all day with an anxious heart and tried my best to cast my worries and fears on the Lord.
Today while standing outside of the Nursing Station, a lady approached me and asked if I was new in town, I introduced myself and said we were the new pastoral assistants at St.Theresa’s. When she heard we have 4 kids, she was excited, she has four also. Her youngest is 6. I asked if she went to St.Theresa’s and she said she used to but she would bring her daughter who was the only child there and her daughter would make so much noise, it was embarrassing for her. I told her, “Mine too! My children make noise too! She smiled and probably wondered why I was so excited. I told her it would be so nice to have other children in the church. She smiled and said her daughter just can’t sit still for more than 15 mins. I said it’s the same with my children, but if you come we can figure it our together! She smiled and asked what time.
I walked away from our conversation filled with thankfulness. Here the day before I was feeling like my children were a burden and I was acting like they were but the Lord showed me that no, my children are gifts and gifts are meant to be shared. Perhaps it will be our children who will help to bring back some of the families in the community.
This helped us remember the words from Bishop Gary, “Your primary role is to live out your family life in the community. Be a witness by your life…Be very, very patient and remember the reason you are there…JESUS!”